Putting down some ground rules for people who want to comment on my blog.
When I started this blog early last year I was very tiered and a little afraid of comments.
Being autistic means that it takes a lot of effort to communicate with people. Being tiered means that you can’t defend yourself against critics.
But I never received any critics. Apart from getting a lot of spam every one who commented seemed to like my blog.
But having received a number of comments I’m finding that there are some things I don’t like:
- If you want to write a book that’s fine with me. But don’t do it on my website. It’s very easy to write a lengthy boring piece of comment. If I think something is boring, I will cut it down or delete it.
- It is nice to give or receive some advice. But keep in mind that people won’t remember dozens of pointers. By all means advice on a technique or medium I could use but don’t go over board on everything I could ever do.
- I don’t like cursing. It’s not so much that I want to have a family friendly website but I don’t find it useful. In my experience if you have something interesting to say, people will read it. If you just want to shock. People won’t read it.
I do realize that most people won’t read this article before commenting. It’s just something to point to in case some one doesn’t understand my motivation for changing a comment.

















Just wanted to help you, as I do for my students. Sorry if I bored you or bothered you.
Hi Cecelia,
Although I like it when people try to help me there is no way that I’m going to try all of the 20 some pointer you gave me. That’s why I buy books.
With a book there is a logic in the way the course is presented and if you don’t like it you switch to an other book.
The other point is that before I knew that I’m autistic I have had a lot of people advising me on all sorts of things that probably would have worked if I wasn’t autistic. But as it was people just accused me of not trying hard enough.
As a result I rather try my own things and learn in my own way then getting loads of advice.
regards Henk